Elaine Love
Threesome Facilitator & Adventure Guide for Couples
Fantasizing About a Threesome, but Worried About the "What Ifs"?
Are you and your partner dreaming about a threesome together, but hesitant to take the leap? Perhaps you're worried about the potential of jealousy, feeling left out, or relationship drama.What if I told you that with the right guidance, these challenges could become catalysts for profound connection and personal growth!
Let Me Be Your Guide on This Intimate Adventure
Step into a realm where desires bloom, relationships flourish and fears wither away.I'm Elaine Love, your guide and partner on an exquisite journey of threesome exploration — a journey that’s less about just "trying something new" and more about expanding love, deepening trust, and co-creating a vibrant new chapter in your relationship.
"Elaine's experience and familiarity with this work are very clear. [...] If you’re fortunate enough to be reading this, book her immediately. It will be a most valuable and rare journey."
M., male
"Wow. Wow. Wow. My experience with Elaine was a dream come true. And we totally had the breakthrough I had been hoping for! It was... identity shifting!!"
M., female
"Elaine was masterful at listening for when the moment called for her to be our guide and when it was most serving to be our peer and playmate."
B., male
The Alchemy of Desire: Transforming Fantasy into Profound Connection
Imagine a journey where
You and your partner dance between excitement and trust, feeling truly seen by one another in joy, pleasure and growth
Your deepest desires are celebrated, not judged — every vulnerability, every fantasy held in a safe and welcoming space
You learn to navigate complex emotions like jealousy with grace, using them as catalysts for deeper intimacy
You redefine what's possible in your partnership and rediscover each other through fresh eyes. Your love emerges stronger than ever, and full of new potential.
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Personal Growth
This isn't just about pleasure — it's a transformative experience that catalyzes self-discovery and relational expansion.
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Authentic Expression
Practice voicing your needs and boundaries with confidence. My carefully crafted container empowers you to be your most genuine selves.
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Emotional Alchemy
Jealousy blossoms into compersion, fear transmutes into trust. Watch as old beliefs melt, making way for a more expansive, unconditional love.
For Couples Yearning for Adventure, Compersion and Transformation
This container is designed for couples
Desiring a first threesome but overwhelmed by the "what ifs" or unsure how to start
Who've experienced challenges and want to reframe group play with intention
Ready to expand notions of intimacy and challenge societal norms
Seeking new tools to master the art of threesomes
Get in Touch
Let's Start The Next Chapter Of Your Love Story!
Text me at 415-766-7971 (no calls) or message me below. Please share a bit about yourselves — how did you find me, what’s drawing you to this experience, and how do you see it aligning with your dreams?Please note: I work exclusively with couples and am unable to accommodate single clients. Thank you for your understanding.
The Arc Of Your Journey
Meet & Greet:
30-minute complimentary call to align intentions and explore possibilitiesDeep Dive:
2-hour social meetup to learn about each other and let chemistry buildImmersion:
5-8 hours of guided in-person magic, filled with spicy games and free playIntegration:
1-hour call to reflect and weave the experience into your life
The Immersion
My unique container offers an exquisite balance of structure and freedom, creating a deeply safe space for you to explore and express your authentic desires. Our 5–8 hour in-person immersion unfolds as I seamlessly shift between guide and play partner, providing unwavering support throughout.Together, we’ll cultivate practical tools to confidently and gracefully navigate the delicate dynamics of three-way play.If challenging emotions arise, I’ll hold space for you, allowing vulnerability to alchemize into profound intimacy. This permission to be vulnerable is one of the greatest gifts of exploring with me first — empowering you to embrace complex feelings in a supportive setting and equipping you to create drama-free, deeply connected threesomes.
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Guided Conversation
Aligning intentions and honoring boundaries
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Playful Connection
Spicy games to deepen trust and ignite intimacy
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Free Exploration
Space for desires and pleasure to unfold organically
The Value of Transformation
Investment
Sliding scale
This unique offer distills the decade of wisdom I've gathered into a carefully crafted, powerfully transformational container. I genuinely desire to make it accessible to couples committed to their growth through a sliding scale. Please enquire for details.Venue
Your home or a hotel of your choice — whichever feels best for you.Travel
I am based in San Francisco and kindly ask that you cover my travel expenses, including Uber fares.
Get in Touch
Let's Start The Next Chapter Of Your Love Story!
Please note: I work exclusively with couples and am unable to accommodate single clients. Thank you for your understanding.
Questions?
Please Feel free to text me at 415-406-2146 (no calls), or message me below.
I'm excited to guide you toward deeper love and intimacy through a shared threesome adventure!
Guided Conversation: Aligning intentions and honoring boundaries
Playful Connection: Spicy games to deepen trust and ignite intimacy
Free Exploration: Space for desires and pleasure to unfold organically.
Thank you for your courage and curiosity — you're taking the first step toward a thrilling new adventure together.
Ready to Explore New Dimensions of Intimacy?
Reach out today to start writing the next chapter of your love story together.I am excited to guide you on this path toward deeper intimacy, adventure, and connection.
Your Jouney Awaits
The Package
The steps of your threesome journey:
Reach Out: Share your desires through the contact form
Meet & Greet: 30-minute complimentary call
Deep Dive: 1-hour exploration call
In-Person Experience: 5-8 hours of magic
Integration: 1-hour call to weave the experience into your life
What to expect
The Experience
During our in-person session, my role oscillates between guide and play partner, ensuring you feel supported throughout. I'll equip you with tools and tips to navigate the intricate dynamics of three-way play.
Guided Conversation: Aligning intentions and honoring boundaries
Playful Connection: Spicy games to deepen trust and ignite intimacy
Free Exploration: Space for desires and pleasure to unfold organically
The Value of Transformation
Donation
This new offer distills a decade of wisdom I've gathered into a carefully crafted, transformational container for your relationship's growth. As one of the first couples to embark on this journey, you'll have the opportunity to decide the value of our experience after our time together.Travel costs
I kindly ask that you cover my travel costs and Uber fares as an additional donation. I'm based in San Francisco.Venue
Your home or a hotel of your choice — wherever you feel most comfortable.
Get in Touch
Let's Make That Threesome With You & Your Partner Happen!
Contact me at [email protected] or message me at 415-406-2146 (no calls).
Note: I do not work with singles, only with couples. Thank you for your understanding.
Your privacy is of utmost importance. Your data is stored securely using Jotform, which is end-to-end encrypted and HIPPA compliant, and will never be shared.
Elaine Love
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About Me
Let Me Be Your Guide on This Intimate Adventure
As a happily married polyamorous woman, my lived experience infuses every aspect of our work together, offering you real-world wisdom alongside heartfelt guidance.For over a decade, I've been joining couples in their threesome explorations, weaving magic that transforms relationships.My superpower? Creating a judgment-free zone where your fantasies are honored, your growth is nurtured, and your relationship is celebrated.I believe threesomes are far more than physical encounters; they are celebrations of your unique partnership, mirrors reflecting the boundless beauty of your love, and gateways to deeper trust.I'm here not only as a facilitator, but also as an ally, and as a play partner — someone genuinely thrilled to co-create a profound and loving adventure with you both.
"I would recommend Elaine to anyone looking to explore group play — whether trying to navigate triggers more skillfully, or looking to deepen their capacity for intimacy."
E., male
"The space created for open communication and taking things slow put me not only at ease, but also in a state of excitement and deep awareness."
S., female
"I now feel even closer to my partner and so much better equipped to navigate play spaces together."
O., male
Testimonials
Real Stories of Trust, Freedom & Compersion
"Wow. Wow. Wow. My experience with Elaine was a dream come true.
My partner and I worked with Elaine to lean into and address a particular place of fear and tenderness when we are in threesomes with another woman.
Elaine brought an exquisite level of care, presence, attunement and play to our in-person session and our integration call. I could not have imagined a more sexy AND safe experience! And we totally had the breakthrough I had been hoping for! It was... identity shifting!!" ~ M.
"Elaine crafted an arc that was the perfect balance of exercises, sharing and free play during the in-person session.
She was masterful at listening for when the moment called for her to be our guide and when it was most serving to be our peer and playmate.
She clearly has a unique gift at helping couples in this especially vulnerable place of erotic exploration. I am SO grateful for our experience with Elaine. Thank you!" ~ B.
"Elaine is an incredible mix of wit, compassion and allure.
Throughout our session, she masterfully navigated the delicate and shifting dynamics of our experience, bringing heart, care, and presence that guided us effortlessly from playful to deeply intense and erotic moments.
Her experience and familiarity with this work are very clear. I trust her completely.
If you’re fortunate enough to be reading this, book her immediately. It will be a most valuable and rare journey." ~ E.
"Elaine masterfully held a container dedicated to my partner and I, while also bringing her full, delicious erotic energy.
Prior to our session with Elaine, I had never had a great threesome experience. With a sense of needing to manage both partners’ experiences, I haven’t been able to drop as deeply into my pleasure and flow as I can with just a single partner. The exercises Elaine guided us through helped presence, and mitigate the little concerns or blocks that would previously take me out of the moment. I felt safe enough to bring my full self, and finished the evening feeling deeply nourished, and closer to my partner.
I would recommend Elaine to anyone looking to explore group play — whether trying to navigate triggers more skillfully, or looking to deepen their capacity for intimacy." ~ E.
"I am so grateful to have had this experience with my partner and Elaine as our facilitator.
I went into the day a bit nervous, but the space created for open communication and taking things slow put me not only at ease, but also in a state of excitement and deep awareness of myself and others involved. Elaine fostered an environment through a series of games that erased my fears and made me comfortable while giving me tools to embark on more fun and sexy journeys with my partner for times to come.
I highly recommend for couples who are wanting to learn how to navigate group settings." ~ E.
"I deeply appreciate Elaine and her unique gifts; this was an amazing opportunity to deepen together and have her hold space beautifully for me and my partner in terms of exercises in openness, communication, playfulness and safety.
I’m happy to say I now feel even closer to my partner and so much better equipped to navigate play spaces together in terms of wants, needs, care and openness." ~ E.
Get In Touch
Thank you for your courage and curiosity — you're taking the first step toward a thrilling new adventure together.
Client Verification
We are about to embark on a journey full of vulnerabilities. For my safety, I require a light screening for all new couples. This information will be kept private, secure, and will be shared with no one. Rest assured, your privacy is as important to me as it is to you.Required:
Legal name, email address, and phone number for safety verification. I respect your privacy and won’t reach out without consent.
In addition, please provide at least 1 of the following:
1-2 recent tantrika/provider references with contact info and a link to their website or ad. If you haven't seen a provider recently or ever, reach out to me and I'll work with you on this.
Employment info like your name and photo on a company website or a LinkedIn profile with 100+ connections. (A photo is essential to verify your identity.)
Google search presence: If I can find your name and photo through a quick search, it helps confirm your identity.
